WRITE THESE LAWS ON YOUR CHILDREN: Inside the World of Conservative Christian Homeschooling By Robert Kunzman
The book was released in August of 2009 and published by Beacon Press of Boston.
A Review by Susan Ryan, Illinois Homeschooler
In one of Robert Kunzman’s interviews with six “strongly conservative” Christian homeschooling families, a California homeschooling mom related her kids “get a lot of life, real life that goes on, that they don’t understand when they are separated for several hours a day.” She went on to explain that their family of nine children was able to spend valuable time lovingly caring for their grandparents as they reached the end of their lives. Whatever different views, philosophies and lifestyles any homeschooling family has, the incredibly diverse homeschool community can appreciate that, as Mr. Kunzman points out, “homeschooling is…woven into the fabric of everyday family life.”
Indiana University Associate Professor of Education Robert Kunzman’s name – and his quotes – have been floating into general homeschooling news over the last few months. Many homeschool advocates have been wondering what collective influence he has had, to be sought after so frequently in articles about homeschooling. (It is an odd feeling, as homeschoolers carry on with our busy lives and then discover that some unknown entity is talking about us in an authoritative fashion.)
Often, Mr. Kunzman’s feedback was requested regarding a perceived homeschool growth trend. The National Center for Education Statistics data is reported on his site with their supposed 74% homeschooling increase since 1999. He has developed an impressive Indiana University website called: Homeschooling Research and Scholarship. It gave a start to see that on a university link. (The University of Illinois has a homeschooling applicant section in order to study at the University, but not to be studied.)
Kunzman researched and analyzed the families who were located in California, Indiana, Oregon, Tennessee, and Vermont. Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) co-founders Michael Smith and Michael Farris, former Generation Joshua leader Ned Ryun, and a Teen Pact college student were also interviewed. The book offered observations and reflections on “four crucial questions that framed [his] homeschooling journeys“: “What do homeschoolers do, and why do they do it? Do children learn to think for themselves? What do they learn about the relationship between faith and citizenship? And how, if at all, should homeschooling be regulated?”
I found Mr. Kunzman’s attentive layout of each individual family’s qualities and schedule engaging, although he didn’t ever seem to take his professional evaluator’s hat off when stepping in the door. He asked the parents’ opinions of increased oversight of homeschoolers. The feedback seemed to be a resounding negative on more governmental authority. One California mom’s adamant rejection of more bureaucracy brought about his acceptance that some homeschoolers “who have learning difficulties would be having at least as much trouble in an institutional setting.” He maintained that “to assume outright that a parent-teacher is a failure because her child doesn’t meet a fixed standard at a particular age or grade level may be just as unfair as expecting a classroom teacher to have all students excelling in June, regardless of where they started in September.” That is a worthy concept.
Still, Kunzman proposes homeschoolers be subjected to those standards in his concluding chapter: “General consensus should exist on standards for meeting those interests.” (“Interests” are included as part of his first proposition that “vital interests of children or society must be at stake.”)
There is a societal disquiet across our communities concerning much of public school education and its standards. Naomi Wolf laments in a Washington Post article [‘Hey, Young Americans, Here's a Text for You’] that the federal No Child Left Behind Act mandates tests which “assess chiefly math and reading comprehension,” while civics and history education has gone astray. However, Kunzman calls for “basic skills testing” (reading and math) of homeschoolers, along with his third homeschool oversight recommendation that “an effective way to measure whether standards are met” be fulfilled.
Professor Kunzman also expressed ambivalence about the Home School Legal Defense Association’s teen civic education program called Generation Joshua. Kunzman observed that Generation Joshua has “genuine civic engagement.” While noting a 2006 National Assessment of Educational Progress civics assessment is distressing, in that “only 27% of high school seniors [were] scoring at or above proficient.”
Kunzman’s 2007 interview with former George Bush speech writer and founding Generation Joshua Director Ned Ryun occurred before Ryun unhappily exited from the HSLDA fold. The reason for that departure is one example that the conservative Christian homeschooling community is not in lockstep with HSLDA. Many draw the line when homeschooling rights are risked.
There was another case in point concerning the interviewed Tennessee homeschooling family who did not follow HSLDA advice. They were the only family in the book that had to deal with state social workers (“four or five different times”). The family determined they had “nothing to hide” and allowed the social worker into their home to chat. When asked if there was any follow-up to the visit, the reply was a negative, with the father’s comment that: “As a matter of fact, the last visit, the man opened up to me quite a bit about how he raises his children. He told me he smacks his children!”
The mother observed that was a touchy issue. This family had a “thin black rod about eight inches long” that rested on the table. They were also former neighbors of Michael Pearl, whose book “To Train Up A Child” is a deep source of dismay for many homeschoolers. Conversely, the Tennessee homeschooling father was inspired by the book:”I have never read anything more encouraging, more uplifting, more knowledgeable in homeschooling.”
When Kunzman returned home from Tennessee, he looked up Pearl’s book on Amazon and discovered there were nearly 700 [currently 859] reviews of the book. Many of the negative reviews were from dismayed homeschoolers not supportive of this type of discipline, and very active in the Stop the Rod movement.
Most homeschool advocates counsel to not let social workers or truant officers in the home without a court order. We recognize and agree with the author that “some public school officials and social workers do have a decidedly jaded view of homeschooling.” Abuse is unwanted in the homeschool community. That would include governmental bullying of law abiding families because they choose to homeschool.
That prudence should be understandable when homeschoolers’ educational base is located in the family’s private living space. The call for regulation by Mr. Kunzman and others thrashes the very opposition that these six families have to governmental interference. Ironic, isn’t it?
There seemed to be a definite agenda in this book that wasn’t favorable to homeschooling self-sufficiency. The last chapter is oddly named: Becoming A Public. The premise of Kunzman’s homeschooling concerns, framed in the first chapter’s last question regarding “Homeschool Regulation,” seemed to lead to this book’s foregone conclusion.
I’m also bewildered by Washington Post columnist Jay Mathews’ thought process in his recent Education column, 3 Smart Rules for Regulation of Homeschoolers, which focused on Kunzman’s book. Mathews’ position seems to be that unfavorable political winds could increase regulation and that we should do something about that by using the “sensible answer” of universal regulation as offered in “Write These Laws On Your Children.” Mathews also states, “Kunzman knows that many parents have chosen to homeschool for non-religious reasons, but focuses on serious Christians because they are the ones that public school professionals are most worried about.”
The concern about “serious Christians” is the theme throughout this book. Kunzman requested each of the six families fill out a General Social Survey to confirm their social, political and religious conservatism. There must be a survey or study sought out for almost every curiosity, while most homeschoolers seem to be holding out as the last bastion. Robert Kunzman reported that nearly a fourth of our homeschooled population don’t need to notify or verify educating their children. He asked HSLDA’s Michael Smith if their ultimate goal was to be a “place like Illinois where parents don’t have to report, register, anything.”
Kunzman’s propositions suggested that free homeschooling states (such as Illinois) “runs the greatest risk of neglecting the interests of children and the state.” His unease seems to be baseless and cynical, as he didn’t provide proof of such neglect. An imagined problem, that school bureaucrats need to oversee already established parental accountability, will kill what we live – and what we love about homeschooling. The former Social Studies and English high school teacher, coach and administrator describes a “triad of interests” (children, parents, society) as a concern of “advocates of regulation.” (‘Anti-homeschoolers’ is the term I use for homeschooling regulation advocates.) Even after hundreds of hours observing homeschoolers, Robert Kunzman either doesn’t understand the homeschooling way of life, or worse yet, he does.


Sandi C. said on August 25, 2009
Interesting, Susan.
Does anyone know what the heck that phrase “Write These Laws on Your Children” means? Is this a quote or reference to something I am not familiar with? (I do, after all, live in a homeschooling bubble.) Being unfamiliar with that idea, the directive to write laws or anything else on your children seems very odd to me.
As a homeschooler who can’t imagine writing anything on my child, I don’t want to be painted with the same brush as homeschoolers who may, for whatever reason, write on their children. 67,400 google hits on this book title is a lot of paint being splashed around. Why?
Sandi
Ben said on August 25, 2009
I believe it comes from the Bible, though I don’t have the verse off hand. It is mainly about teaching your children God’s law. I have seen somewhere where as part of a ceremony, little boxes with scripture are tied to children’s heads (like a headband) but it’s nothing freaky. Well… maybe to non Christians who don’t appreciate diverse ceremonies and rituals of cultures they are not familiar with.
At any rate, seems to me the author is just interested in focusing in with a laser on one section of the homeschooling community to the exclusion of all else.
Perhaps he sees the writing on the wall i.e. Christians are about the only people as a group that are fair game to critique harshly without fear of PC backlash?
I find it interesting that statist school officials are most concerned about those Christian homeschoolers. THEY are the ones we fear. LOL! If I were a nom believer, I think I would be offended that I wasn’t worthy of concern to the NEA and their ilk.
BbBennett
Susan said on August 26, 2009
It’s not an actual quote from the Bible, but it surely sounds like one, doesn’t it? Who wants to write laws on our children? Mr. Kunzman.
Here’s the New James Bible version that Mr. Kunzman put in his preface, along with 2 other quotes.
And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart:
And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children,
and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house,
and when thou walkest by the way,
and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.
And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand,
and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyse.
And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates.
Deuteronomy 6:6-9
The unexamined life is not worth living. -Socrates
Then saith {Jesus} unto them,
Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar’s;
and unto God the things that are God’s.
The question is, are our homeschooled children ‘Caesar’s'?
Crimson Wife said on August 26, 2009
I think it refers to Jeremiah 31:33
“This is the covenant I will make with the house of Israel after that time,” declares the LORD. “I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people.
Susan R said on October 31, 2009
Yesterday morning I did a speed read of this book. I generally agree with this review. It should not be considered as authoritative research. How many requests did he send out to homeschoolers… and only 6 agreed to have him interview them?
BTW, what is a conservative Christian? I’d consider myself to be 1) a Christian 2) a moral and economic conservative- but the beliefs I hold dearest weren’t shared by the majority of the families in this book. The more you try to squeeze people into handy-dandy containers, the more they leak out the sides and drip all over the place. It can’t be done in any ‘authoritative’ manner.
What Kunzman and company refuse to understand is that regulations will hinder the very foundation of home education, which is to have the freedom to respond to our children’s individual abilities and needs. If I am busy trying to poke their round heads into square holes, I’m not going to feel free to teach them as I believe they need to be taught. It also assumes that unless gov’t regulates the family, parents will not endeavor to do what is best for their children, and that certain parenting decisions are best left to ‘professionals’.
If I remember correctly, Kunzman viewed education as a public interest, while dismissing any similar oversight of health care and nutrition. Considering how many tax dollars go to paying for the health care of many of our nation’s families, how is it NOT a ‘public interest’? Yet I doubt he would support gov’t oversight of the eating habits and exercise routines of American children, requiring parents to submit their children to yearly checkups and expecting compliance with state mandated standards of well-being and fitness. Think of the lives it would save if it were against the law for parents to allow their children to become obese.
It is the same argument, but he isn’t going to go there, because it is culturally acceptable to take potshots at conservatives and Christians, or any other family who dares to live out their beliefs, but addressing the overall health of our nation’s children would get EVERYONE mad at him.