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		<title>Comment on What is going on? by Ed</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 21:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Our family will be praying for you. This is the first we heard of it.

&quot;But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint&quot;. Isaiah 40:31 KJV</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our family will be praying for you. This is the first we heard of it.</p>
<p>&#8220;But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint&#8221;. Isaiah 40:31 KJV</p>
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		<title>Comment on What is going on? by Tanya Steinberg</title>
		<link>http://homeedmag.com/blog/court-case/what_is_going_on/comment-page-1/#comment-1733</link>
		<dc:creator>Tanya Steinberg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 20:35:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t personally know Mimi, her husband, or either of the two defendants, Heather and Helen, involved in this case. I am however a subscriber to Home Education Magazine and happened upon this legal battle on Facebook. Naturally it tapped my curiosity and let me say the only one tarnishing Mimi and Learning by Grace&#039;s reputation is HERSELF. Her inability to stop fueling the fire with frivolousness and rambling posts only provides more ammunition and further solidifies the accusations against (and peoples opinions of) her. And before Mimi jumps on the boat and claims I&#039;m a homeschooling purist, Helen lover, or whatever other nonsense she dreams up I&#039;ve been homeschooling for over 7 years and have homeschooled both traditionally and via a virtual academy (a point which Mimi repeatedly makes in regards to HEM&#039;s apparent &quot;attitude&quot; towards virtual academies).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t personally know Mimi, her husband, or either of the two defendants, Heather and Helen, involved in this case. I am however a subscriber to Home Education Magazine and happened upon this legal battle on Facebook. Naturally it tapped my curiosity and let me say the only one tarnishing Mimi and Learning by Grace&#8217;s reputation is HERSELF. Her inability to stop fueling the fire with frivolousness and rambling posts only provides more ammunition and further solidifies the accusations against (and peoples opinions of) her. And before Mimi jumps on the boat and claims I&#8217;m a homeschooling purist, Helen lover, or whatever other nonsense she dreams up I&#8217;ve been homeschooling for over 7 years and have homeschooled both traditionally and via a virtual academy (a point which Mimi repeatedly makes in regards to HEM&#8217;s apparent &#8220;attitude&#8221; towards virtual academies).</p>
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		<title>Comment on What is going on? by Helen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Helen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 17:15:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Many friends are wondering about the lawsuit now that it&#039;s coming to an end, and asking questions on discussion groups, Internet forums, blogs, and privately. Long story short, the good news is we won in every important aspect. The bad news is it was a philosophical and moral win, not a
material or financial one. It literally cost me everything I own and more; it cost my attorneys almost a year they could have been putting toward more important and constructive efforts; it cost my family
dearly... But we won.

I&#039;ll share information about what happened during the hearings when I can, but I am not going to write anything about the lawsuit without my attorney&#039;s approval, and we&#039;re still working on the resolution details. I deeply appreciate your patience and understanding; it&#039;s taken us almost a year to reach this point of resolution, a few more days won&#039;t make much difference.

Here&#039;s what I can share from PACER, the Public Access to Court Electronic Records:

Order of October 14:
&quot;ORDERED that the above action is DISMISSED with prejudice, pursuant to agreement of counsel without costs.&quot;

My attorneys and I are still working on the agreement referenced above, so I can&#039;t say anything about it.

Order of October 13:

AND NOW, this 12th day of October, 2011, following oral argument, it is ORDERED the Motion for Leave to Withdraw as Counsel for Plaintiffs filed by Richard Hans Maurer (Document 45) is GRANTED.

It is further ORDERED Defendant Heather Idoni&#039;s Bill of Costs (Document 71) will be GRANTED. Plaintiff shall pay the bill of costs in the amount of $3,725.30 within ten days of this Order.

It is further ORDERED Defendant Helen Hegener&#039;s Bill of Costs (Document 72) will be GRANTED. Plaintiff shall pay the bill of costs in the amount of $2,988.00 within ten days of this Order.

People have been asking if they could share this news. Yes, please feel free to share it anywhere, via discussion groups, forums, blogs, newsletters, anyplace where people who&#039;ve been wondering about this lawsuit will find that it&#039;s over and we&#039;re moving on now. But there&#039;s a little more I&#039;d also like to have widely shared:

A friend wrote to ask about the costs involved; they&#039;d heard that Mimi had to pay our attorney fees, but that is not so. The costs are enormous, almost a quarter of a million dollars now, and Mimi and her lawyer do NOT have to pay all our expenses. She will pay only my attorney&#039;s costs and travel expenses from the Oct. 7th hearing Mimi didn&#039;t attend, and they&#039;re pretty minimal, under $3,000. Still, it&#039;s an important victory in the sense that she&#039;s paying us, and we are not paying her. 

We did not receive any compensation for the loss of business from losing our web site and our ordering systems at the height of what is normally the best time of year for us. We not only lost the HEM site because of Mimi&#039;s harassment, but ALL our other web sites, even those not related to homeschooling. But perhaps the biggest and potentially most significant loss was my ability to communicate in my normal manner and volume. I&#039;ve had a long-running problem with carpal tunnel
syndrome, but I&#039;ve kept the situation under control for many years by moderating the use of my hands. The extreme volume of typing with all the filing and emailing and communications which this lawsuit has necessitated has my hand almost crippled. I shouldn&#039;t be typing this, but hopefully it will help get the word out that this is over, and we&#039;re ready to set about the difficult task of rebuilding almost 30 years of work.

We need help. If you&#039;ve ever considered becoming involved with this publication, please contact me at helenhegener@homeedmag.com and explain what you&#039;d be interested in doing. If you have no idea but just like the idea of helping, I&#039;ll be putting together a list of what we need and will post it at our HEM Networking discussion group on YahooGroups sometime in the next few days.

And if you can help financially, even a tiny little bit, you can send it via PayPal to orders@homeedmag.com or via check to Helen Hegener, PO Box 759, Palmer, Alaska 99645 (yes, that&#039;s my personal address). I&#039;m working on a &#039;Friends of HEM&#039; web site, and I&#039;ll share more on that soon. 

Thank you, everyone, for your support,
Helen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many friends are wondering about the lawsuit now that it&#8217;s coming to an end, and asking questions on discussion groups, Internet forums, blogs, and privately. Long story short, the good news is we won in every important aspect. The bad news is it was a philosophical and moral win, not a<br />
material or financial one. It literally cost me everything I own and more; it cost my attorneys almost a year they could have been putting toward more important and constructive efforts; it cost my family<br />
dearly&#8230; But we won.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll share information about what happened during the hearings when I can, but I am not going to write anything about the lawsuit without my attorney&#8217;s approval, and we&#8217;re still working on the resolution details. I deeply appreciate your patience and understanding; it&#8217;s taken us almost a year to reach this point of resolution, a few more days won&#8217;t make much difference.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what I can share from PACER, the Public Access to Court Electronic Records:</p>
<p>Order of October 14:<br />
&#8220;ORDERED that the above action is DISMISSED with prejudice, pursuant to agreement of counsel without costs.&#8221;</p>
<p>My attorneys and I are still working on the agreement referenced above, so I can&#8217;t say anything about it.</p>
<p>Order of October 13:</p>
<p>AND NOW, this 12th day of October, 2011, following oral argument, it is ORDERED the Motion for Leave to Withdraw as Counsel for Plaintiffs filed by Richard Hans Maurer (Document 45) is GRANTED.</p>
<p>It is further ORDERED Defendant Heather Idoni&#8217;s Bill of Costs (Document 71) will be GRANTED. Plaintiff shall pay the bill of costs in the amount of $3,725.30 within ten days of this Order.</p>
<p>It is further ORDERED Defendant Helen Hegener&#8217;s Bill of Costs (Document 72) will be GRANTED. Plaintiff shall pay the bill of costs in the amount of $2,988.00 within ten days of this Order.</p>
<p>People have been asking if they could share this news. Yes, please feel free to share it anywhere, via discussion groups, forums, blogs, newsletters, anyplace where people who&#8217;ve been wondering about this lawsuit will find that it&#8217;s over and we&#8217;re moving on now. But there&#8217;s a little more I&#8217;d also like to have widely shared:</p>
<p>A friend wrote to ask about the costs involved; they&#8217;d heard that Mimi had to pay our attorney fees, but that is not so. The costs are enormous, almost a quarter of a million dollars now, and Mimi and her lawyer do NOT have to pay all our expenses. She will pay only my attorney&#8217;s costs and travel expenses from the Oct. 7th hearing Mimi didn&#8217;t attend, and they&#8217;re pretty minimal, under $3,000. Still, it&#8217;s an important victory in the sense that she&#8217;s paying us, and we are not paying her. </p>
<p>We did not receive any compensation for the loss of business from losing our web site and our ordering systems at the height of what is normally the best time of year for us. We not only lost the HEM site because of Mimi&#8217;s harassment, but ALL our other web sites, even those not related to homeschooling. But perhaps the biggest and potentially most significant loss was my ability to communicate in my normal manner and volume. I&#8217;ve had a long-running problem with carpal tunnel<br />
syndrome, but I&#8217;ve kept the situation under control for many years by moderating the use of my hands. The extreme volume of typing with all the filing and emailing and communications which this lawsuit has necessitated has my hand almost crippled. I shouldn&#8217;t be typing this, but hopefully it will help get the word out that this is over, and we&#8217;re ready to set about the difficult task of rebuilding almost 30 years of work.</p>
<p>We need help. If you&#8217;ve ever considered becoming involved with this publication, please contact me at <a href="mailto:helenhegener@homeedmag.com">helenhegener@homeedmag.com</a> and explain what you&#8217;d be interested in doing. If you have no idea but just like the idea of helping, I&#8217;ll be putting together a list of what we need and will post it at our HEM Networking discussion group on YahooGroups sometime in the next few days.</p>
<p>And if you can help financially, even a tiny little bit, you can send it via PayPal to <a href="mailto:orders@homeedmag.com">orders@homeedmag.com</a> or via check to Helen Hegener, PO Box 759, Palmer, Alaska 99645 (yes, that&#8217;s my personal address). I&#8217;m working on a &#8216;Friends of HEM&#8217; web site, and I&#8217;ll share more on that soon. </p>
<p>Thank you, everyone, for your support,<br />
Helen</p>
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		<title>Comment on What is going on? by Adesa Hafford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adesa Hafford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 15:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mimi has been doing things like this for *decades*. I am sincerely grateful to you, Helen (and all the defendants), for standing up to her. This woman and her husband need to be stopped. I hope she&#039;ll learn, in the process, that she is completely in the wrong and is a bully. Though I doubt it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mimi has been doing things like this for *decades*. I am sincerely grateful to you, Helen (and all the defendants), for standing up to her. This woman and her husband need to be stopped. I hope she&#8217;ll learn, in the process, that she is completely in the wrong and is a bully. Though I doubt it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What is going on? by Ann Zeise</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann Zeise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2011 17:53:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To date, I have not received any legal documentation from Mimi Rothschild or any lawyer on any matter whatsoever.

I supported Helen and Heather by providing an affidavit concerning how Mimi had used my personal name and website name for her own advertising purposes in Google Adwords and in another search engine. I also provided records of other well-known homeschoolers, websites, and organizations she had used as links to her own cyberschools. She even had the audacity of using &quot;Home School Legal Defense&quot; - leaving off the &quot;Association&quot; part, as if that would matter! If HSLDA decided to ignore Mim&#039;s businesses after that, you better believe that they didn&#039;t do it on the advice of any of us inclusive homeschoolers!

This is a form of identity theft. Wouldn&#039;t you be upset if you searched in Google or Bing on your own name or business name, and saw a link in the right hand or top ads with your name linked...and going to one of Mimi&#039;s cyberschools? Would you not want to warn your friends to check to see if it is happening to them, too?

Most of us in the world of homeschooling who have some sort of web business supporting homeschool families, are friendly competitors. We know we can only help so many homeschoolers within our own areas of expertise, so we enjoy working together to help everyone find a good educational fit for their kids and their family philosophies. We help families find good educational deals where they will get the excellence they expect, and try to steer them away from rip-offs, and those using shady business practices.

Pray that we can continue to guide families wanting the best in home education!

Ann Zeise
&lt;a href=&quot;http://homeschooling.gomilpitas.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A to Z Home&#039;s Cool&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To date, I have not received any legal documentation from Mimi Rothschild or any lawyer on any matter whatsoever.</p>
<p>I supported Helen and Heather by providing an affidavit concerning how Mimi had used my personal name and website name for her own advertising purposes in Google Adwords and in another search engine. I also provided records of other well-known homeschoolers, websites, and organizations she had used as links to her own cyberschools. She even had the audacity of using &#8220;Home School Legal Defense&#8221; &#8211; leaving off the &#8220;Association&#8221; part, as if that would matter! If HSLDA decided to ignore Mim&#8217;s businesses after that, you better believe that they didn&#8217;t do it on the advice of any of us inclusive homeschoolers!</p>
<p>This is a form of identity theft. Wouldn&#8217;t you be upset if you searched in Google or Bing on your own name or business name, and saw a link in the right hand or top ads with your name linked&#8230;and going to one of Mimi&#8217;s cyberschools? Would you not want to warn your friends to check to see if it is happening to them, too?</p>
<p>Most of us in the world of homeschooling who have some sort of web business supporting homeschool families, are friendly competitors. We know we can only help so many homeschoolers within our own areas of expertise, so we enjoy working together to help everyone find a good educational fit for their kids and their family philosophies. We help families find good educational deals where they will get the excellence they expect, and try to steer them away from rip-offs, and those using shady business practices.</p>
<p>Pray that we can continue to guide families wanting the best in home education!</p>
<p>Ann Zeise<br />
<a href="http://homeschooling.gomilpitas.com/" rel="nofollow">A to Z Home&#8217;s Cool</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on About HEM&#039;s Questions &amp; Answers by Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 22:38:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>According to one book, ADD is not a disorder at all; it is a attention surplus. In other words, these kids who feel caged in class rooms, but they have no need to be. Doctors try to calm them down by drugs and therapy, when in fact, ADD (attention surplus) is a natural part of a child who loves to be more creative and energetic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>According to one book, ADD is not a disorder at all; it is a attention surplus. In other words, these kids who feel caged in class rooms, but they have no need to be. Doctors try to calm them down by drugs and therapy, when in fact, ADD (attention surplus) is a natural part of a child who loves to be more creative and energetic.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About HEM&#039;s Questions &amp; Answers by Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 22:14:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>According to one book, ADD is not a disorder at all; it is a attention surplus. In other words, these kids who are feel caged in class rooms, but they have no need to be. Doctors try to calm them down by drugs and therapy, when in fact, ADD (attention surplus) is a natural part of a child who loves to be more creative and energetic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>According to one book, ADD is not a disorder at all; it is a attention surplus. In other words, these kids who are feel caged in class rooms, but they have no need to be. Doctors try to calm them down by drugs and therapy, when in fact, ADD (attention surplus) is a natural part of a child who loves to be more creative and energetic.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Public anti-learning by Susan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 11:34:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remember when I was a 1st grade mother helper in our local school when test week came up.  It was always a stressful, crazy time in the classroom.  (This was ~17 years ago.)
One of the teachers (a great teacher) was in a panic because they&#039;d slipped in &#039;telling time&#039; to the 1st graders&#039; standardized tests. They hadn&#039;t covered that yet. Most of the kids had no clue about analog clocks, unless their parents bucked the &#039;system&#039; and satisfied the kids&#039; curiosity.
Some great people are in the school system.  But the differences in education are so very stark sometimes.

It&#039;s very difficult trying to explain that egregiousness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember when I was a 1st grade mother helper in our local school when test week came up.  It was always a stressful, crazy time in the classroom.  (This was ~17 years ago.)<br />
One of the teachers (a great teacher) was in a panic because they&#8217;d slipped in &#8216;telling time&#8217; to the 1st graders&#8217; standardized tests. They hadn&#8217;t covered that yet. Most of the kids had no clue about analog clocks, unless their parents bucked the &#8216;system&#8217; and satisfied the kids&#8217; curiosity.<br />
Some great people are in the school system.  But the differences in education are so very stark sometimes.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s very difficult trying to explain that egregiousness.</p>
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